• AMEND’s free and confidential counselling service for fully-registered patient members is provided by two counsellors: Kym Winter (Lead Counsellor) and Steve Hartley (Locum Counsellor).  Our Counsellors are also often to be found providing valuable input at our Annual Patient Information Days.

    How can Counselling Help?

    Living with any on-going health condition is challenging, whether you’re newly diagnosed, ‘had it for ages’, or if it’s someone you know who has the condition. Any on-going condition has its ups and downs: sometimes it’s more in the background and sometimes it’s more ‘in your face’. Often, talking to family members or friends can feel very supportive, but sometimes the thoughts, feelings or situations you are experiencing might feel complicated, confusing or difficult to talk to them about. That’s when it can feel helpful to talk to someone who has been trained to help you express and explore your thoughts and feelings from a more neutral position.

    Sometimes, just one session will be enough. Sometimes several sessions over a few weeks is useful in helping you understand and manage difficult feelings, choices and experiences.

  • The AMEND Counselling Service offers FREE and confidential telephone sessions to all fully-registered patient members of AMEND (aged 18 and over), including help to access face-to-face counselling in your local area if appropriate. Pre-bookable face-to-face counselling may also be available on occasion at AMEND events.

    Lead Counsellor, Kym Winter, has also produced the following leaflets for AMEND on emotional well-being issues:

  • Kym Winter – AMEND Lead Counsellor

    I am a trained and experienced counsellor and psychoanalytic psychotherapist with over 15 years experience having worked in a variety of settings including the NHS, higher education and for charities. My first background is in psychology, before going on to train as a counsellor and psychotherapist. I am registered with the UKCP and now work primarily as a counselling trainer, supervisor and therapist in private practice in St Albans, Hertfordshire, UK. Read Kym’s full biography here.

    Making Contact

    Contact is possible by email or telephone to members of AMEND. If you telephone, you may well get to my answer-phone in the first instance, but do please leave a message and also let me know you are calling via AMEND. I’ll aim to return your contact within 48 hours, so if I haven’t done so by then, please do call / email again.

    tbc – AMEND Associate Counsellor


    Our second Counsellor will provide cover for our Counselling Service when Kym is unavailable (holidays etc), or for members who would prefer to speak with a male Counsellor.  Contact details will be available shortly and will be provided by contacting the AMEND office (proof of membership is required).

  • Patient members outside of the UK should first contact Kym by email to arrange mutually convenient sessions in advance. Please bear time differences in mind.

    7 Secrets to Living Well with MEN

    Watch Kym’s presentation on emotional wellbeing from AMEND’s 2015 Annual Patient Information Day for lots of tips for coping with life with MEN.

  • Coping Strategies for MEN Patients

  • Mindfulness

    AMEND’s 2015 project aims were to help people to develop strategies for coping with living with MEN (patients, carers and family members).

    Our free-to-access podcasts will help you learn about and practice Mindfulness and are available on our YouTube Channel (AMEND3).

    Click here to visit the webpage for more information.

  • Other Resources

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